Totally true, and I like to think that limited scope means they're much more worthy of pity than of anger, but... for crying out loud. It's just so damned tiring to see this kind of argument.

Misogyny and homophobia do tend to go hand-in-hand.

Very much so. Anything not the usual he-man heterosexual concept of life is a threat to these guys. It must be tiring. :P